Getting back into gaming but feeling guilty about screen time

3w ago1 min read

Before kids I played a lot of games. Picked it back up recently since my oldest is in school and my youngest naps. Told myself I'd play for an hour in the afternoon a few times a week just for some downtime. But now I'm getting back into it hard and spent like 40 bucks on a new game. My wife made a comment about how much time I spend on it and now I feel bad. How do you guys balance hobbies like gaming with family time? Is it okay to want something just for me or should I be using that time with the kids?

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MMike R.Regular3w ago

Set specific times for it. Like, this is my gaming time and these are the family times. Kids understand boundaries way better than we think they do. When school's in session you've got built-in free time anyway.

JJosephNew Dad3w ago

The guilt is normal but here's the thing - my oldest watches me game sometimes and asks questions about strategy and problem solving. It's actually educational if you think about it that way. Doesn't mean you need to justify it, but it's not wasted time.

SSteveNew Dad3w ago

That's totally legit man. You're taking that time during naps and school hours, not neglecting the kids. An hour of gaming is way better for your sanity than scrolling your phone anyway.

NNate H.Regular3w ago

Gaming was your hobby before, and picking it back up while they're occupied is actually smart parenting. You're happier, they're fine. Win win.

MMark T.New Dad3w ago

Don't feel guilty about this. You need your thing just like the kids need their activities. Sounds like you're being responsible about it with the time limits too.

EEric M.Regular3w ago

Getting back into something you love is healthy. Your kids watching you do something that brings you joy teaches them it's okay to have hobbies. Just balance it out - don't feel guilty about actually enjoying something.