My 6yo just tied his own shoes for the first time
I've been working with him on this for like 3 months and today he just did it. No help. I literally just stood there watching and he nailed it. My wife wasn't even home so I immediately texted her a video. Best feeling ever. I know it sounds small but man this parenting thing is awesome sometimes.
This is what it's all about right here. Not the big stuff, just watching them nail something they've been working toward. Your patience with him those three months is probably teaching him more than the actual shoe tying.