My kid just beat the final boss in Mario with no help
Been watching her work through Super Mario Bros Wonder for like a month now. She got stuck on the last boss and asked for help a few times but I kept telling her to try different things. Today she just crushed it without asking me once. The look on her face when she won was everything. Makes all the whining and controller throwing worth it.
This is the stuff right here. Not the hand holding, but letting them struggle and figure it out. She's learning problem solving and persistence at the same time. Pretty great parenting move just sitting back.