RANT: Potty training a 3yo boy is actually insane

Dec 29·1 min read

Why does he think the toilet is a target? How is pee getting on the WALL? We bought a step stool, a seat reducer, books about it, underwear with his favorite characters. Still comes home from preschool with accidents 3-4x a week. I'm not mad I'm just... tired? And confused? Other parents make it sound so easy but nobody talks about the hidden costs of cleaning supplies I'm going through. If anyone has actual solutions (not Pinterest stuff) I'm listening.

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OOliver Q.RegularDec 29

The wall thing is because they think they're aiming. Get a bucket or a training seat that makes the hole smaller so his aim actually matters.

JJasonNew DadDec 31

Step stool is half the battle. The other half is them finding it hilarious when they miss. Our pediatrician said just keep it light and don't make it a power struggle.

IIan P.RegularDec 29

This phase lasted about 6 months for us. Just embrace the mess and keep a roll of paper towels under the sink. He'll eventually figure it out.

CCraigNew DadDec 30

Try putting a few cheerios or food coloring in the toilet and make it a game to sink them. Game changer for us with aiming issues.

PPete D.RegularDec 31

Dude same. My 3yo somehow shot pee backwards between the seat and the bowl. I didn't even know that was possible. Bought some waterproof floor mats and moved on with my life.