My son is asking for an iPad constantly because his friends all have them. We've been pretty strict, only like 30 mins of TV on weekends, but I'm wondering if we're being too harsh. What's reasonable at this age? Are there good parental controls apps that actually work? I don't want him addicted to screens but I also don't want him feeling left out at school.
Honestly, 30 mins on weekends is solid. The fact that you're thinking about it this hard means you're already doing better than most.
The peer pressure is real at that age. We set a rule that screens happen on weekends like you do, and it's held up surprisingly well.
We struggled with this too. Ended up letting him have limited access but only for educational apps, which actually helped him feel included without going overboard.
I get the friend pressure but you're right to be strict at 5. My rule is no iPads, just books and outdoor time when possible. Your kid won't miss out by waiting a few more years.
The 'everyone has one' argument is tough but honestly most experts say 5 is too young anyway. You're doing the right thing by holding the line on this one.
We've set a pretty firm limit of 30 minutes on weekends only. The constant asking gets easier to say no to if you're consistent. Stick with your guns, his friends' parents probably struggle with it too.
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Our approach is educational apps only and I control the time. But honestly at 5 he doesn't need it yet. Offer alternatives like building stuff, drawing, anything creative.