Finally got Discord configured safely for my 13yo
Spent like 3 hours setting up Discord with family filtering and limiting who he can talk to. Downloaded some monitoring software that logs everything without being obvious about it. He thinks he's just on Discord like his friends but I can see his conversations. Not sure if that's helicopter parenting or just being smart. Either way he's happy and I can actually sleep at night. Took way longer to figure out than expected but feels like a win.
Good on you for taking the time to set this up properly instead of just saying no to Discord like some parents do. That's teaching digital literacy the right way.