Just got my son his first phone and installed Life360, set screen time limits, and he doesn't have social media yet. He seems responsible so far but I'm paranoid about all the stuff out there. What did you guys do when your kids got their first phones? Looking for real advice not judgement. I know I can't keep him in a bubble forever but I also don't want him exposed to stuff that'll mess him up.
Sounds like you've got a solid plan in place. Life360 and screen time limits are smart moves, and keeping social media off for now is definitely the way to go. Trust your gut on this one.
12 is a good age to start. The fact that he's showing responsibility already is a great sign. Just keep checking in with him about what he's doing on there, same way I talk to my kids about what they're up to outside.
Sounds like you've thought this through more than most parents. The screen time limits are smart. My question is more about whether he understands why you're doing this or if he just sees it as restrictions?
You're doing it right so far but 12 feels early honestly. We waited until 13 with our oldest and even then it was tough. Just know that whatever rules you set now will need adjustments as he gets older and sees what his friends have.
12 is pretty young to me but your safeguards sound solid. Life360 is a good call for peace of mind. Does he know about the screen time limits or is that something you monitor quietly?
The no social media part is huge. That's where things really start to get messy with that age group. You're doing better than most honestly. Just remember he's going to push back eventually so be ready for that conversation.
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You're doing better than most, honestly. The parental controls are good, but the real win is that you're paying attention and not just handing it over blind. Stick with that approach.