Found out my 14yr old has a second Instagram account
So my wife noticed our son has a finsta with like 200 followers and he's posting stuff he'd never show us. Nothing illegal or super crazy but definitely more mature than what he shows at home. Do we confront him about it or let him have his privacy? He's a good kid overall, good grades, not getting in trouble. Just feels weird that I don't know what he's doing online.
The finsta situation is a different beast. That's where they feel safe being themselves away from parent judgment, which honestly makes sense developmentally but also means he's got stuff he's not comfortable with you seeing. That's a conversation about trust.