our screen time compromise that somehow works

Jan 51 min read

Been struggling with this for years with my two boys (9 and 12). Finally figured out a system that doesn't make me want to scream:

School days: 1 hour max, after homework is done
Weekends: 2 hours, but they have to earn 30 min by doing chores or reading
No screens 1 hour before bed
Family gaming night on Thursdays - we all play Mario Kart or something together

It's not perfect but they're actually going outside more and not fighting us on it as much. Took about 3 weeks to get them used to it.

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Comments(5)

PPedroRegularJan 7

This is exactly what we need to hear. Everyone talks about their struggles but it's rare to see someone actually post that they figured something out. What's the system?

DDanielNew DadJan 7

The age gap between 9 and 12 is huge when it comes to what's appropriate screen-wise. Props for finding something that works for both of them.

MMarcus W.RegularJan 6

Is it some kind of points system or earned time thing? That's what we've been thinking about trying.

EEric V.RegularJan 7

We're struggling with two kids at very similar ages and nothing seems fair to both of them. Please tell us you're gonna post the details in the comments.

MMike R.New DadJan 8

Screen time battles have been the worst part of parenting for us. If you found an actual compromise that works I'm genuinely interested.