Screen time battles every single day

Apr 25·1 min read

We set a limit of 1 hour on weekends and my kids act like we're running a prison camp. Complaining, trying to sneak devices, lying about how long they've been on it. Meanwhile my wife says I'm too strict and they need to learn to self regulate. But then she gives them extra time when she's tired or trying to get something done. I feel like we're not on the same page and the kids are playing us. Any advice on getting a united front?

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BBrandonNew DadApr 27

We do screen time-free dinners at our house and honestly it's been a game changer. Yeah, the initial complaints are rough but kids adjust. Maybe try replacing the screen time with something they actually enjoy doing with you instead.

SSteveRegularApr 27

The prison camp comparison is so real. My 10yo acts like I'm torturing him but honestly limiting screen time has made our hiking trips way better. He actually engages now instead of zoning out. Stick with it.

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CChris R.RegularApr 26

1 hour on weekends seems pretty reasonable to me. Kids are gonna complain no matter what the limit is though. With three kids in two houses I had to get creative - made it a negotiation thing where they earn extra time with good behavior during the week.