Screen time during divorce is getting out of hand

2w ago·1 min read

My wife and I are going through it right now and honestly the kids are getting way too much tablet time. We're both stressed and letting them zone out with YouTube for hours. I know it's not great but I feel like everyone needs a break. My 6 year old can barely sit through dinner without asking for his iPad. Should I be concerned or is this just a phase we're going through? Feel like I'm failing them.

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VVincentRegular2w ago

This is exactly the kind of thing that gets out of hand during tough times. Maybe coordinate with your wife about a shared screen time policy so the kids get the same limits at both houses? Consistency across both homes helps a lot.

PPedroRegular2w ago

I get it - divorce is stressful and tablets are the easiest babysitter. But this is when they need structure the most. Try setting specific times when screens are allowed and stick to it. Consistency helps kids feel grounded when everything else is crazy.

DDerekNew Dad2w ago

Real talk - kids use screens to cope when their world feels unstable. Don't beat yourself up about it but yeah you gotta rein it in. Set clear limits and offer alternatives. Movie nights together instead of solo tablet time if you can.