The hardest part about tech limits is the FOMO conversation

My 11yo keeps saying all his friends are on Discord and TikTok and that he's literally the ONLY one who isn't. I know this isn't actually true but also... I get the anxiety. It IS where kids are socializing now. We compromised with Snapchat (which I don't love but seems slightly less algorithmic?) but he's still frustrated. Anyone figured out how to help them feel less left out without just caving to everything? This is harder than I expected.