Using parental controls - worth the hassle? | DadHQ

Using parental controls - worth the hassle?

3d ago1 min read

Just set up Apple Screen Time on my kids' devices and it's kind of a game changer but also feels like I'm being spied on. My 14 year old got mad when she realized I could see her usage but I explained it's not about trust it's about protection. She still thinks I'm controlling. Is this the way to go or should I just let them have more freedom at this age? Part of me feels like I'm being the tech police and it's not healthy.

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SStevenRegular1d ago

I use it and yeah it's kind of invasive feeling at first but it works. My kids know the limits now and I don't have to fight about it constantly. Fair warning though, kids get creative about trying to work around it.

MMark R.New Dad3d ago

The hassle is real but the payoff is worth it. You get actual data on what they're doing instead of just guessing. Plus when they hit their limit it just cuts them off, no argument. Takes the pressure off you as the bad guy.

MMike F.Regular3d ago

We don't have the same digital stuff going on out here on the trail, but I get that you need tools to help manage it. Sounds like you're doing the right thing even if it sucks for everyone involved.

RRick H.Regular3d ago

Screen Time saved us from so many arguments about bedtime and TikTok binges. Yeah, they get mad about it, but that's part of the deal. Beats having no visibility into what they're doing online.

HHank W.Regular3d ago

The spied on feeling is real, but honestly it beats the alternative. My 14 year old hated it at first too, but we framed it as "this is how we keep you safe" rather than "we don't trust you." Made a difference.

MMiguelRegular3d ago

Do it. Parental controls have saved me from so many battles. Set reasonable limits, explain why to your kids, and stick with it. It feels controlling at first but it's actually freeing once you get used to it.

AAndrew T.New Dad2d ago

Screen Time is a game changer once you set it up right. Yeah it feels a little big brother at first but honestly knowing when my kids are using devices and for how long gives me peace of mind. Worth the setup for sure.