Family prayer time suggestions that actually work

1w ago1 min read

We've been trying to do family prayer before dinner and honestly it was feeling forced and awkward. The kids weren't engaged, my wife and I were rushing through it. Last week we switched it up and started doing it right after breakfast instead, and we made it more conversational. Everyone gets to share something they're thankful for or something they need prayer for. My 9 year old even started asking questions about what the Bible says about certain things. It's been a game changer for us. Thought I'd share in case anyone else is struggling with making it feel natural.

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JJosh M.Regular1w ago

Nothing wrong with adjusting. I've learned that intentionality beats tradition every time with kids. If dinner prayer isn't landing, find what does work for your crew. Doesn't have to look like anyone else's family.

AAdam R.Regular1w ago

We ditched the formal dinner table prayer for a while because same thing, it felt like we were checking a box. Now we do it more casual, sometimes after dinner while we're cleaning up or just throughout the day when something comes up. Way less awkward.

RRick M.Regular1w ago

This is honest. Forced family prayer doesn't work. My wife and I started just talking about what we're grateful for instead of the formal prayer thing and the kids actually engage now. Some families do bedtime prayers better than dinnertime ones too if you want to switch it up.

AAlex R.New Dad1w ago

Try letting the kids lead sometimes. My daughter started wanting to say the prayers herself and suddenly it wasn't awkward anymore, it was just her and us listening. Made it feel real instead of like a chore. Might work for your family too.