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How do you actually pray with your kids without making it weird?

2w ago·1 min read

I want to lead my family spiritually but every time I try to pray with my kids at dinner it feels forced and awkward. They're 7 and 10 and I can tell they're not into it. My wife says I'm trying too hard and to just be natural about it but what does that even mean? Like how do I make faith feel real to them instead of just something we do because we're supposed to? Any advice would help.

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Comments(6)

JJustinRegular2w ago

I'd be honest with them about the awkwardness. Like 'Hey this is new for me too and I'm not great at it but it matters to me.' Kids respect honesty more than performance.

RRyan M.Regular2w ago

We started super simple. Just having everyone say one thing they're grateful for before we eat. Took the pressure off the formal prayer vibe and it felt more natural. Might help with the weirdness factor.

BBob G.Regular2w ago

Maybe try something less formal at first? Even just talking about gratitude over dinner before the actual prayer part could help it feel more natural with them.

DDerek S.Regular2w ago

Man, I get this. Baby's still tiny so we haven't hit the prayer thing yet, but I imagine starting simple and honest beats forced any day. Your kids will feel the difference.

JJosh M.Regular2w ago

The key is not making it about being perfect or sounding a certain way. My kids respond way better when I just talk to them like a real person instead of switching into some prayer voice.

DDerek M.Regular2w ago

Starting with just reading something together instead of praying out loud might feel less weird for your family. Depends on your faith tradition but it's worth trying different approaches.