How do you teach kids about sin without shame?

EricNew Dad

6d ago·1 min read

My 8 year old lied about breaking a lamp today. I wanted to explode but instead we sat down and I asked why he was scared to tell the truth. Talked about how we all mess up and that's why Jesus came. Explained consequences matter but so does confession and forgiveness. Made him apologize to mom, do extra chores, but also made sure he knew I still love him and God still loves him. Sometimes I feel like I'm winging this parenting thing but I'm trying to show them grace like Christ shows us.

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BBenny R.Regular6d ago

This is exactly what I try to teach my kids during sports too - that mistakes happen, but how you respond to them matters. Your 8 year old is learning that honesty is worth more than fear, and that's everything.

RRob K.Regular6d ago

That's the move right there. My daughter broke something last week and I did the same thing - just asked what she was scared of instead of jumping down her throat. She opened up way more than if I'd yelled. Sounds like you handled it perfectly.

BBen L.Regular6d ago

Man, I respect that you caught yourself before exploding. That's real parenting right there. Getting to the root of why kids lie is way more valuable than punishing them for the mistake itself.