Is it wrong to want a break from the kids sometimes?

1w ago1 min read

So I feel guilty even typing this but some days I just want an hour alone. Not because I don't love my kids but because I'm running on empty. Had a conversation with my wife about it and she reminded me that I can't pour from an empty cup. We've been trying to give each other a couple hours each weekend to recharge. I'm reading or at the gym and she gets time with her friends. I think Jesus took time to pray and be alone too so maybe it's not selfish to recharge. Just wanted to put it out there in case anyone else feels the same way.

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JJamal W.Regular1w ago

Two under two here and I can barely remember my own name, so I get it. Those quiet moments aren't selfish, they're necessary. Don't feel guilty about needing to refill your tank.

DDannyRegular1w ago

Dude, you're not alone in this. Some days I'm just trying to survive on caffeine and I totally get wanting that break. An hour alone is like hitting the reset button. You deserve it and your family benefits when you're not burnt out.

DDerekNew Dad1w ago

Man, that's not guilt talking, that's survival instinct. I've got twins and I'm telling you, taking an hour to recharge makes you a better dad, not a worse one. Your kids need you at your best, not running on empty.