Recommended resource that actually helped

If you haven't read Focus on the Family's 'Raising Boys' by John Eldredge, do yourself a favor. Changed how I think about fatherhood completely. Instead of trying to be a perfect spiritual robot, it helped me see that my boys need to see me as a real man who struggles, seeks God, and fights for what matters. Not some sanitized version of Christianity. Might be helpful if you're trying to figure out how to authentically lead your family.