Should we be concerned about their youth group friends?

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May 131 min read

Our 15 year old joined the youth group at church which we're happy about, but some of the friends he's made are starting to influence him in ways I'm not totally comfortable with. I don't want to judge these kids or be that controlling parent but my gut tells me something's off. How much should we be involved in their social circles?

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TTrevorRegular3w ago

Get to know the parents if you can. That's what we did. Went to a few youth group events, made some connections. It helped me stop worrying so much because I could actually see who these kids were around.

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MMiguelRegular3w ago

When my oldest was in youth group, one of his friends' family situation was... rough. But the friend turned out fine and actually the youth group probably helped him more than anything. You can't protect them from everyone, just stay close and keep talking to them about what's going on.

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BBrandonRegular3w ago

Some of those friends probably have amazing parents too. I wouldn't stress unless you see actual red flags. Youth group is honestly great for kids that age, gives them structure and community.

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