Struggling to be the spiritual leader my family needs

2w ago·1 min read

Guys I'm going to be real with you. My wife expects me to lead us in prayer and set the example for our kids but I'm battling lust and anger issues that I haven't told anyone about. How do I stand up there and talk about following Christ when I'm falling short every single day? I don't want to be a hypocrite. My kids are 6 and 8 and they look up to me. I'm in counseling now but some days I feel like such a fraud.

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TTyler H.Regular2w ago

Man, I respect you for being honest about this. I'm only 3 months in and already feeling the pressure to have it all together spiritually, so hearing you struggle makes me feel less alone. Maybe leading doesn't mean being perfect, just being real with your family about the fight?

JJasonNew Dad2w ago

I've built a lot of furniture around here and let me tell you, sometimes the instructions are confusing but you keep building anyway. Sounds like that's what you're doing with your faith and family. Keep going.

AArchie M.Regular2w ago

This is exactly the kind of thing I need to hear about now while my daughter's still little. Thanks for not pretending you have it figured out. The fact that you want to be better for your family says something about your character.