Struggling to lead by example when I'm failing

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3w ago1 min read

Been a Christian my whole life but lately I've been struggling with anger, gossip, and just general selfishness. My kids are watching all of it. I know I need to be the spiritual leader in my home but how do I lead them to Christ when I'm constantly messing up? Do I talk to them about my struggles or just try to be better? This is eating me up.

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PPete S.Regular3w ago

Man, that's real honesty right there. The fact that you're aware and bothered by it actually puts you ahead. Kids forgive and learn from seeing parents try to do better, not from seeing perfection.

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PPatrick W.Regular3w ago

I get this. Being a parent is humbling because they really do see everything. The good news is showing them how you work on your stuff is probably more valuable than if you had it all figured out.

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CCarl D.Regular3w ago

You're modeling something important here even if it doesn't feel like it. Kids need to see that being a Christian isn't about never messing up, it's about acknowledging when you do and trying again.

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