Teaching my kids to pray before they ask for stuff

2w ago·1 min read

Been working with my kids lately to pray before jumping straight to asking me for things. My 5yo wanted a new toy and I told him to pray about it first and think about whether he really needs it. He prayed and then said 'Dad I think I can wait.' I was blown away. Trying to show them that God cares about what matters to them and that prayer isn't just for bedtime. It's a small thing but I'm seeing them think differently about their wants.

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PPabloNew Dad2w ago

That's good parenting right there. Teaching delayed gratification and reflection at that age is huge. I bet he'll remember this approach way more than any toy you could have bought him.

NNathan K.New Dad2w ago

That's a great approach, man. I'm still figuring out how to handle these moments with my son, but I love that you're teaching him to pause and reflect instead of just reacting. Curious how he responded to the prayer part?

DDanny G.Regular2w ago

This is awesome. I do something similar in the garage with my son - making him think through what he needs before we just grab tools. Sounds like you're building something really solid with your 5yo.

MMarcusNew Dad2w ago

That's a great habit to build. We've been doing something similar with our 5yo and honestly it's helped with the constant requests. It's not perfect but it does make her think before asking. How's your kid responding so far?

MMarcusNew Dad2w ago

Love this approach. With four kids I've learned that when they slow down and think about what they actually need versus want, everything gets easier. Keep it up.

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BBlake T.New Dad1w ago

This is awesome. Teaching kids gratitude early is something we really try to focus on. Does your 5yo understand the prayer part or is it more just the pause before asking?