Trying to model Christ when I'm losing my patience with my kids

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1w ago1 min read

Been struggling lately with how I'm talking to my kids when they mess up. Yesterday my 6yo spilled juice all over the couch and I just snapped at him in a way I know Jesus wouldn't approve of. My wife pointed it out and honestly it hurt because she was right. I want my kids to see Christ in how I handle frustration but some days I feel like a total hypocrite. Anyone else dealing with this? How do you reset and model grace when you're at your limit?

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SStevenRegular1w ago

Three kids here and I've been right where you are. The good news is your 6 year old will remember that you care way more than he'll remember the spilled juice. Take a breath and give yourself some grace.

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TTonyNew Dad1w ago

We all snap sometimes, especially in the moment. The fact that you're thinking about this and wanting to do better is what matters. My twin boys push me to my limit daily, but every time I catch myself I just try to reset and model that apology to them.

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