Kids' sports schedules are destroying me

Real talk - my 6yo is doing soccer (which requires me to sit in the sun on Saturday mornings) and my 9yo is in basketball (Tuesday and Thursday evenings, plus a game on Saturday morning but a different time than soccer). My wife works weekends sometimes so the schedule coordination is actually insane. Had to quit my Wednesday golf league just to make pickup work.

How do y'all manage multiple kids with different activities? Do you just accept that your life is no longer your own?