We usually do something nice but this year money's tight and I'm exhausted and I haven't even started thinking about it. Her birthday is literally in 2 weeks. I know this makes me a bad husband but I'm admitting it here first lol. What are some actually thoughtful gifts that don't cost a fortune? She's not really into stuff—more experiences? Help me not sleep on the couch
Start by just picking a date and blocking it off together. Sometimes that matters more than the actual activity. Shows you're making time for her which is the real gift when you're in survival mode.
My wife appreciated a handwritten note and a simple day where I took all the kid stuff off her plate way more than anything expensive I've bought. Just saying.
How long until her birthday? You might have more time than you think. Even a couple weeks to plan something is better than nothing.
Netflix and takeout from a place she likes, plus me handling bedtime solo. That's been my move when money is tight and honestly it's worked out fine.
Money tight and exhausted is basically the dad baseline right now. Don't stress about it too much. Your wife probably just wants some time together honestly.
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You don't need to spend money to make someone feel special. Home cooked dinner, clean house, kid free afternoon to do whatever she wants. Those things matter way more than a big budget.