The Great Bedtime Battle of 2024

Our 3yo has decided that bedtime is now optional. Kid doesn't get tired. He just... doesn't. We do the whole routine - dinner at 5:30, bath, story, the works - and at 9:15pm he's still doing parkour off his bed frame. His older sister was asleep by 7:30 at this age so I have no reference point for what's normal anymore. My wife thinks he has too much energy, I think he's just wired like that, neither of us is getting sleep so the point is moot. Trying to figure out if this is a phase or if we're just cursed. Help.