Being a man of your word doesn't pay the bills but here I am

2w ago·1 min read

Made a promise to my brother 15 years ago that I'd help him out if he ever needed it. Well he needs it now and it's gonna cost me about 8 grand I don't really have. My wife thinks I'm crazy for following through, says blood doesn't mean you have to go broke. But a man's word is his honor. Did the right thing anyway. Figured there's guys on here who understand that's just how you operate.

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MMike R.Regular2w ago

That's solid man. Keeping your word even when it costs you something is what being a man is actually about. Your brother is lucky to have family like that.

JJamesRegular2w ago

This hits different when you're the one making the sacrifice. 15 years is a long time to hold onto something like that. Respect.

VVincentRegular2w ago

That's the kind of man you want to be though, right? Even if it's tough right now. Your brother will remember this forever. How much are we talking about helping with?

DDannyRegular2w ago

Been there with promises that felt impossible to keep. The bills don't care about your word but your character does. Hope your brother appreciates what you're doing.

BBradRegular2w ago

It might not pay the bills but your kids are watching how you treat family. That lesson is worth more than money. Respect.

AAlexRegular2w ago

Real question though - are you in a position where this is going to strain your own family? Because helping your brother matters but so does taking care of your kids. Just want to make sure you're not spreading yourself too thin.