Being a Man of Your Word in a Contract-Happy World

2w ago·1 min read

Got offered a job last month that would've paid more money but I already gave my word to my current company that I'd see a major project through. My wife thought I was crazy turning down the extra pay, but a man's word has to mean something. Three weeks later my boss remembered that loyalty and ended up matching the offer anyway and promoting me. Maybe I was lucky, maybe it was karma, but I know my kids saw that keeping your word matters. Not enough guys operate this way anymore.

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MMack G.Regular2w ago

As a coach, I see a lot of character get tested, and what you just did is textbook integrity. Your word being good is worth more than gold in the long run. Props to you.

MMike R.Regular2w ago

You did the right thing. I've learned with two kids that integrity is the one thing you can't buy back later. Your family knows you're solid, and that matters more than any paycheck.

HHank C.Regular2w ago

That takes real character, man. Sticking to your word when more money is on the table says a lot about who you are as a person and a dad. Your kids are watching that.

JJustinRegular1w ago

In a world where people break contracts and their own promises on a whim, this matters more than ever. Your current employer is lucky to have someone like that on their team.

CChris M.Regular1w ago

This is exactly the kind of integrity that gets harder to find. Taking the pay cut because you gave your word is the real definition of a man of your word. Your kids are watching and learning what that actually means.

BBrett M.New Dad1w ago

How much money are we talking about here? I'm asking because that's a real sacrifice and I'm wondering if it was worth it long term or if you regret it.