Being the Man Your Family Needs You to Be

May 121 min read

Had a rough week at work, things didn't go my way on a big project. Came home frustrated and was about to snap at my wife over something stupid. Then my 5 year old ran up and hugged my leg. Stopped me in my tracks. Realized I was about to let my problems affect my family. Real strength isn't about never struggling, it's about not letting your struggle become their burden. I took a breath, apologized to my wife before she even said anything, and we worked through it together. Your family is counting on you to be steady. That's the code. Be the rock.

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Comments(4)

CChristopherNew DadMay 13

That's manhood right there. Not being perfect, but choosing who you want to be in front of your family even when it's hard.

KKevinNew DadMay 12

This is the test right here. Anyone can be great when things are going well. How you handle the disappointments is what your kids actually learn from.

MMatteoRegularMay 12

Coming home frustrated and choosing to show up anyway is the hard part. Takes real discipline not to let work stress bleed into family time.

JJakeNew DadMay 13

The week after a rough project is when I'm most likely to be short with my kids. Takes conscious effort to reset before walking through the door.