Being the provider and the example - holding the line at work and home

1w ago·1 min read

Been in the same job for 18 years. Could've hopped around for better pay but I wanted stability for my family. My boys see me go to work every day, come home, and be present. They see me handling problems without complaining and doing what needs to be done. That's the kind of man I want them to become. Everyone talks about work life balance but nobody talks about showing up and being dependable. That's leadership. That's the old way and it still works.

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BBrandonNew Dad1w ago

The providing part is one thing but the example part is everything. Your kids are watching how you handle yourself at work and at home. That 18 years of showing up consistently teaches them more than any paycheck could.

DDannyRegular1w ago

This resonates with me. Being an example of consistency and reliability is underrated. My kids see that I show up the same way every day and I think that matters more than having the fanciest things. You're doing the gentleman's code thing right.

PPatrick M.New Dad1w ago

18 years in the same job is solid. A lot of guys jump around chasing the next raise and then realize they missed so much with their families. The stability you've built matters more than people think, especially for your kids.