Got called out for opening the door for my wife at dinner

2w ago·1 min read

Took my wife to this new restaurant downtown last weekend and held the door open for her before I went in. Some younger guy made a comment about toxic masculinity and how I was being condescending. I just smiled and let it roll off. At the end of the day I was raised to show respect and courtesy to the ladies in my life, and nothing modern is going to change that. My wife appreciated it and that's what matters.

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Comments(5)

RRob H.Regular2w ago

I get what you're saying but honestly I stopped worrying what other people think about stuff like this years ago. If your wife appreciates it, that's what matters. Everyone else can take a seat.

JJames H.Regular2w ago

That guy sounds like he's got some stuff to figure out. Opening a door for someone you love is just being a good partner, nothing toxic about it. Keep doing you.

RRussell D.Regular2w ago

Ignore him. I juggle four kids and working crazy hours, and treating my wife with respect isn't some outdated code, it's just being a decent human. You're good.

JJasonNew Dad2w ago

Hey man, that's ridiculous. Opening a door is basic courtesy, not some outdated gender thing. Sounds like whoever said something was just looking for a reason to complain. Keep being respectful to your wife.

BBenNew Dad2w ago

Teaching manners and respect is what it's all about. Good on you for showing your kids what that looks like in real time.