Got passed over for a promotion by someone less qualified

2w ago·1 min read

Been at my company for 8 years, came in early, stayed late, did honest work every single day. Found out they gave the job to a younger guy with half my experience because apparently he's more 'innovative' or some nonsense. My first instinct was to blow off steam but I took a breath instead. Told my boss congratulations and that I'm ready to support the new guy in any way I can. My old man would tell me that's how a real man handles disappointment. Still stings though.

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BBrianRegular2w ago

That sucks man, genuinely. But don't let this poison how you show up at work. Your kids are watching how you handle disappointment. I try to remember that when things don't go my way - my kids learn more from how I respond than from getting what I want.

CCharlie A.New Dad2w ago

That stings man, I've seen that happen before. Eight years of showing up and doing it right should count for something. Sometimes it's just timing and politics, not always about who actually deserves it.

KKeith L.Regular2w ago

I get why you're frustrated, but try not to let it eat at you. You know your work ethic, your kids know their dad shows up every day, and that matters more than a title. Doesn't fix today though.

CCraigNew Dad2w ago

I feel this. Got passed over twice at my last job before I realized the company just didn't value what I brought. Sometimes the best move is to start looking elsewhere. You've got 8 years of solid experience - someone else will appreciate that.

TTravis N.Regular2w ago

That's rough man. 8 years of loyalty should count for something. Did you get any feedback on why they passed you over? Sometimes it helps to ask directly what you need to work on for next time, even though it stings.