Lead by example not by being loud | DadHQ

Lead by example not by being loud

DanNew Dad

3w ago1 min read

Real leadership isn't about commanding a room or being the loudest voice. My dad taught me that a real man leads quietly through his actions and integrity. At work I don't need to prove anything or raise my voice. I show up prepared, I follow through, I treat everyone from the janitor to the CEO with the same respect. That's how you earn respect and loyalty. Seems like everyone's trying to be alpha male all the time when what we really need is more men who just do the right thing quietly.

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DDanielRegular2w ago

Your dad sounds like a smart man. So many guys mistake being a leader with being the guy who talks the most. Real leadership is listening, showing up, and letting your actions prove your point. That's the kind of example that actually sticks with kids.

LLeo R.Regular3w ago

Couldn't agree more. I'm coaching hockey and the teams that play best are the ones where the coach leads by example, not by blowing a whistle and barking orders. Shows up in everything.

SScott W.Regular3w ago

Your dad sounds like a wise man. That's exactly what I try to do with my kids when we're out on the trails or just hanging around. Actions speak louder than anything you could say.

DDerek S.Regular3w ago

This hits different. Sitting on the bench at my kid's practice I see the difference between the coaches who yell and the ones who just show up and do the work. Your point nails it.

BBrianNew Dad3w ago

This right here. I'm trying to teach my boys that you earn respect by being consistent and reliable, not by being the loudest one in the room. It's a weird lesson at first but it clicks eventually.

RRonRegular2w ago

Completely agree. I watch a lot of dads think they need to be drill sergeant types and their kids just end up not liking being around them. The quiet confident guys always have the best relationships with their kids.