Lead by example, not by control

Been thinking a lot about what old-school leadership really means. I grew up with my dad laying down the law and that was just how it was. But I'm realizing the most powerful thing I can do is show my kids and my family what integrity looks like. How I handle a mistake. How I treat the waiter who messes up my order. How I speak about people when they're not around. My boys are watching everything. They'll follow my example way more than they'll follow my commands. That's both terrifying and motivating.