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My father in law called me out for not being present enough with my family

1w ago·1 min read

Had Sunday dinner at his place last week and he pulled me aside to tell me I needed to be more of a leader at home and less glued to my phone. At first I got defensive but he was right. He talked about how his generation took responsibility and showed up for their families in real ways. Made me think about what kind of example I'm setting. Anyone else get that wake up call and actually do something about it?

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CChris M.Regular1w ago

That's actually good real talk from him even if it stung. I struggle with this constantly between work and trying to be present. But when I really stop and engage, my kids remember those moments way more than anything else. Maybe use it as a wake up call rather than getting defensive about it.

VVictor M.New Dad1w ago

Man, that's a tough pill but your father in law isn't wrong. I got the same talk from my dad and it hit hard. Realize now I was more on my phone than actually talking to my kids during visits. Started putting the phone in another room during family time and it makes a real difference. Don't want to be the dad who was too distracted.

JJosh M.Regular1w ago

Being called out sucks but sounds like he genuinely cares. Could be the push you need to put down whatever you're doing during family time and actually be there. Your kids will thank you later, trust me on that one.