Raising boys to be men in a world that doesn't know what that means anymore

Honestly struggling with this one. I want my sons to be strong, to provide, to lead their families with honor and integrity. But everything around us is telling them something different about what masculinity should look like. I'm trying to model it daily but it feels like I'm swimming upstream. Teaching them to be decisive, to take responsibility for their mistakes, to respect women and stand up for what's right. Not sure if I'm doing it right but I'm trying my best. Any of you dealing with the same thing?