Southern hospitality is dying and it breaks my heart

Was at a restaurant last week and watched a young man walk past an elderly lady without holding the door. His date was with him and didn't even flinch. When I was growing up that would've been unthinkable. You just did it. No second thought, no expecting praise. It was what a man did. Now everything is about being cool or ironic. We've lost something important as a culture and I hate what we're teaching the next generation. Where are the men who understand duty and respect?