Standing firm on my word cost me money but it was worth it

2w ago·1 min read

I made a handshake deal with a contractor two years ago for 15k to renovate my garage. Nothing in writing, just my word. He did the work, did it well. I told him I'd pay him 15k. Market's changed, could probably get someone to do the same job for 9k now. My buddies told me to renegotiate since there's no contract. I'm paying him the full 15k we agreed to. A man's word is his bond. How could I look myself in the mirror if I backed out? This is what separates gentlemen from everyone else.

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RRick M.Regular2w ago

That's the kind of handshake deal we need more of. 15k is real money, especially when finances get tight, so that's a genuine sacrifice for principle. Did your contractor appreciate it or just expected it?

KKurt D.Regular2w ago

This right here is what I want my son to see as he gets older. A handshake means something, and integrity isn't negotiable even when it costs you. You did good.

CChuck M.Regular2w ago

That's the kind of thing that stays with your kids forever. They're watching how you handle your word, and that contractor knows exactly who he's dealing with. That's worth way more than 15k.

JJayson H.New Dad2w ago

This is gentlemans code right here. My dad taught me that your word is the one thing nobody can take from you. Hard to live by sometimes but you're showing your kids what it looks like.

EEric M.Regular2w ago

Respect. I've seen too many guys get burned on deals and then turn cynical about trust. Two years and you still honored it says a lot about who you are. Hope your kids see that kind of integrity.

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