Started teaching my son the value of a firm handshake and eye contact

1w ago1 min read

Small thing but it matters. Had him practice with my buddies and you could see the difference. When he meets someone now he looks them in the eye, gives a solid handshake, and says it's nice to meet you. People actually comment on it. My wife thinks I'm being weird about it but I told him these are the things that show character before you even open your mouth. In a world where everyone is glued to their phone, teaching kids actual social skills feels like giving them a superpower. My dad did this with me and I'm grateful.

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GGarrettRegular1w ago

This is the stuff that matters. Small habits that compound. How old is he now? I'm trying to figure out when to start this with my daughter.

BBradRegular1w ago

The handshake and eye contact thing actually works. I had my boys practice this and it's wild how much confidence it builds. People notice it too and they treat the kids different, more like young adults. Good call having your buddies help with the practice.

JJasonNew Dad1w ago

Love this. My oldest is getting to that age where first impressions are starting to matter more. Definitely going to have him practice with my friends too. Did you see an immediate difference in how people reacted to him?