Teaching my son to shake hands properly

3w ago1 min read

Been working with my 12 year old on his handshake. Not just the grip but the whole thing - eye contact, firm but not crushing, quick pump, genuine smile. We practiced before his school's career day event and when he came home he said some of the visiting professionals complimented him on it. Made me proud honestly. These little things matter. A man's word and his handshake used to mean everything and I think we've lost something by not teaching the next generation these fundamentals. Gonna keep hammering home stuff like this while he's young.

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Comments(6)

NNate B.Regular3w ago

That's the right approach. A lot of parents don't teach that stuff anymore but it matters. The eye contact piece especially shows confidence. Your son's gonna stand out when he gets older.

CConnorNew Dad3w ago

Good call on the genuine smile part. That's the thing most people miss. A firm handshake without the smile just comes across weird.

JJamesRegular3w ago

That's solid man. My oldest is around that age and I've been doing the same thing. The eye contact part made a real difference - he went from looking at his shoes to actually connecting with people.

LLarry P.Regular3w ago

Love this. With three kids I've learned early habits stick around, so teaching them right the first time saves headaches later. Your son's gonna feel confident walking into any room.

VVincentRegular3w ago

Good man. Teaching the whole package like that really sets kids up. It's not just the grip, it's the confidence and respect that goes with it. Your son's gonna appreciate learning that from you.

CChris P.Regular3w ago

This is such an underrated skill. Twelve is the perfect age to really lock this in before he starts job interviews and meeting new people. Good parenting right there.