My kids know to stand when grandpa enters the room. They address him as sir and listen without interrupting. My wife thought I was being too strict but then her own mother commented on how respectful our kids are compared to her other grandkids. There's something about teaching kids to honor their elders. It matters. We've lost that somewhere.
This is real tradition right here. My grandfather actually commented on how respectful my oldest is when he visits. Made an old man very happy. Totally worth teaching.
I respect what you're doing here. Kids need structure and boundaries. My two know when to listen up, makes everything else easier.
My oldest had to learn respect too but honestly we picked our spots. Standing for grandpa is solid, but we let him slide on some of the formal stuff. Your wife might have a point on finding that middle ground.
The standing thing is a nice touch. It's a physical action that reminds them what respect looks like. Not excessive, just genuine courtesy.
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We do something similar. My kids know to show respect when older family comes over. It's not about being stiff though, just acknowledging that elders have earned respect. Grandpa appreciates it and my kids get it.