Anyone else dealing with anxiety about being a dad?

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1w ago1 min read

I have a 2 year old and a baby on the way and some days the anxiety is overwhelming. I worry constantly that something bad will happen to them, that I'm not good enough, that I'm messing them up somehow. I'm probably checking on my son in his crib like 5 times a night. My wife thinks I should talk to someone but I feel like I should just tough it out. Does this go away or is this just parenthood? Does anxiety medication actually help?

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MMike R.New Dad1w ago

That anxiety is real, man. I had the same thing when my daughter was born. It's actually pretty normal, but if it's overwhelming most days, might be worth talking to someone about it. You're not alone in feeling this way.

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WWill R.Regular1w ago

With a 2 year old and another on the way, you've got a lot on your plate. The anxiety makes sense but try to catch yourself spiraling. Your kids need you present more than they need you worry-free.

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MMarcusNew Dad1w ago

We're up at night with our 3 month old and even exhausted I still get those moments of dread about something happening. It fades some as they get older but those feelings are real. Hang tough.

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