Depression hit different after the kids were born

2w ago·1 min read

I know postpartum depression is usually talked about for moms but I'm convinced I had it too after my second kid was born. Couldn't enjoy anything, felt disconnected from the baby, just going through the motions every day. Finally talked to my doctor about it at the 6 month mark and got on some medication. Took a few weeks to kick in but man, what a difference. If any of you guys are feeling this way, it's not weakness and it's actually pretty common.

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KKyleRegular2w ago

I really appreciate you bringing this up. I went through something similar after my first was born and felt like I was losing my mind. Thought I was just being weak. Turns out it's real and talking about it helped more than anything.

CChristopherRegular2w ago

This is important stuff. The postpartum conversation really needs to include dads too. If you haven't already, definitely reach out to a therapist or counselor. It made a huge difference for me.

SScottRegular2w ago

You're not alone in this. The exhaustion, the anxiety, the feeling that something isn't right when everything should be perfect. It's a real thing and you deserve support getting through it.

CChris T.Regular2w ago

Have you talked to your doctor about it? I waited way too long thinking it would just go away on its own.