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Feeling like a failure as a dad

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2w ago1 min read

Had a rough morning. My 7 year old didn't make the soccer team he wanted and I lost it. Yelled at him because he was upset and not cooperating. Now he's not talking to me. I feel awful. I know I'm a good dad most of the time but moments like this make me feel like I'm just... bad at this. Like my kids would be better off without my stress rubbing off on them. I hate this feeling.

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CConnorNew Dad2w ago

Five months in and I can already tell you that one bad moment doesn't make you a failure. You're human first, dad second. Acknowledge it with him and move forward.

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MMichaelNew Dad2w ago

Don't be so hard on yourself, man. You recognized it and you're here thinking about it. That's what matters. Go talk to him when you're both calm.

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CChristopherNew Dad2w ago

Rough mornings happen across two homes and it never feels great. But the fact you're reflecting on it means you care. Kids are resilient and he needs your apology more than your perfection.

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