Feeling like I'm failing everyone

Jul 31·1 min read

Work is demanding more hours, kids need help with homework, wife is stressed about her job, and I'm just here running on fumes. Every night I go to bed thinking about all the things I messed up that day. Can't sleep, wake up exhausted, and do it all over again. I don't know how to be better at this. Anyone else feel like you're constantly letting people down?

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Comments(4)

BBrian M.RegularAug 2

You're not failing. That feeling is real but it's also the worst lie your brain tells you. You're showing up for your kids, you're here talking about it. That's already more than a lot of people. One thing at a time, man.

GGarrett M.New DadAug 1

With four kids I've learned you have to give yourself some grace. You're going to drop some balls. The fact that you care this much means you're doing better than you think.

AAlex R.New DadAug 2

This resonates so hard. The homework help on top of everything else is killer. What helped me was being honest with my wife about what I can realistically handle each week. Turns out she felt the same way.

LLucas M.RegularAug 2

Been there. Some days it feels impossible to juggle work, kids, and keeping your partner happy. But here's the thing: you can't pour from an empty cup. You might need to drop something or ask for help. Your family needs you functional more than they need you to be superhuman.