How many of you guys actually use support groups?

Dec 31·1 min read

Been thinking about joining a dad support group or something similar but feels kinda weird? Like would I actually open up to strangers about struggling? Or is it just a bunch of guys trying to out-stoic each other? There's one that meets Wednesday nights near me but the details on their website are sparse. If anyone does this - what's it actually like? Do you feel better after or does it just make you feel more alone?

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RRobert T.RegularJan 1

I joined one about a year ago and honestly it saved my sanity. Hearing other dads talk about the same stuff you're going through hits different. Highly recommend just trying one session.

PPete L.RegularJan 2

It's definitely weird at first but once you realize everyone there is also a dad trying to figure things out you relax pretty quick

KKevin M.RegularJan 3

There's also online groups if the in-person thing feels too awkward at first. Lower pressure way to dip your toes in.

WWade T.RegularDec 31

Honestly the weird feeling is exactly why you should do it. That means you need it.

FFred V.RegularJan 3

What's holding you back specifically? The vulnerability aspect or just not knowing if it's for you?

TTyler M.New DadJan 3

Our pediatrician actually recommended it to me and I was skeptical too. Went to one and met three guys from my neighborhood I didn't even know. Now we grab coffee sometimes.