I think I have postpartum depression but I'm the dad
This is embarrassing to admit but something is really wrong with me. My son is 4 months old and instead of feeling bonded to him, I just feel numb. Everything feels pointless. I'm going through the motions with work and parenting but there's no joy in anything. I thought this only happened to moms but I looked it up and apparently dads can get it too. Should I actually talk to my doctor about this or just push through?
Not embarrassing at all. Your brain chemistry doesn't care about gender. 4 months in is actually a common time for this stuff to surface too. Getting help now is the smartest thing you can do.