Working from home and don't really have close friends nearby anymore. Kids keep me busy but I miss just hanging out with guys and talking about nothing. Some days I realize I haven't had a real conversation with another adult besides my wife. Starting to think I need to make more of an effort to build friendships but it's harder as you get older.
I've been there. When we first moved to Portland I didn't know anyone and with the baby it felt like I was completely cut off from the world. What helped me was just saying yes to stuff even when I was tired. Started going to this dad meetup at a local park on Saturdays. Changed everything.
Man, I feel this. Working from home is supposed to be great but it's isolating as hell. The kids are amazing but they're not exactly someone you can grab a beer with, you know? Have you thought about joining any local groups or something? Even a weekly thing with one other person might help break up the week.
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This is rough. I'm lucky my garage keeps me sane but I get what you're saying about missing people. Kids aren't a substitute for actual friendships. You doing anything to get out and connect with other adults?