Lonely dad life anyone? Need some real connection

Feel like I'm going through the motions most days. Work, come home, handle kid stuff, go to bed. Repeat. Don't really have close friends anymore since we moved last year and I'm realizing how isolated that's making me feel. My wife is great but she's got her own stuff going on. Guys don't really reach out like women do about this kind of stuff but I'm trying to be more honest about how alone I feel sometimes. Been thinking about joining a dad group or something at church but also nervous about opening up to guys I don't know well. Just needed to get this out there.