Postpartum depression is real for dads too

My wife had it after our first kid and everyone was checking on her which is good. But when our second was born I started feeling this heaviness I couldn't shake. Lost interest in stuff I normally love. Felt disconnected from my family which made me feel even worse. Took me like 4 months to finally talk to someone about it. On meds now and in therapy and honestly it's made such a difference. Don't know why I thought I had to tough it out. If you're feeling this way you're not weak, you're human.